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 family  
                  I  had expected.  It's clearly  my duty and  
                  I  start
 trying   to   get   myself   
                  to   shoulder   the  responsibility
 cheerfully. 
                  (M.T., San Francisco, California)
       I 
                  am aware of a partnership between two parties and Iam    asked    to   record 
                    my   thoughts  concerning   
                  this
 partnership  on  three  five-inch  square 
                  pieces of colored
 paperred,  blue  and  green.  I  write 
                   on them and hand
 them in to someone.
 I  am  in  a  jewelry 
                   store  with  a  girlfriend,  browsing
 around, going  in different directions. She  is being 
                  waited
 on  by  a gentleman from India and  I am being 
                   helped by
 his wife, an Oriental lady. In  the center  of  
                  the store is a
 small,  circular room raised about a foot from the floor 
                  on
 a  sort  of pedestal.  It  is enclosed  
                  in  glass and  contains
 very special antique jewelry.  I step up  into the 
                  room and
 begin looking  at the jewelry.  I complain  to  
                  the Oriental
 lady  that  it  is  terribly  dusty  
                  insidethe small  jewelry
 boxes  are  covered  with  dust.   She 
                   says,  "Well,  don't
 blame me. I don't often come inside here." I  reply 
                  with a
 grin, "Yeah, only with me, huh?" Then  I  find 
                  what  I  am
 looking for:  three individual rings  of  solid 
                  stone  with no
 gold  or  silver  ornamentation.  One is 
                  lapis,  one is coral,
 and the third  is solid jade.  I  purchase the 
                  three rings for
 my girlfriend.  I don't bother having  her finger 
                  measured
 as somehow I know that they will fit. Then I wonder if her
 fiancé will mind if I give them to her.
 I  step  out  of  
                  the  circular  room  and  go  to  find 
                   my
 girlfriend,  who  is  looking  at  
                  imitation  American Indian
 jewelry with the man from India.  He  is  trying  
                  to sell her
 very  detailed  necklaces   of   cheap  
                  sterling  silver   and
 imitation turquoise.  I  become very upset and  say 
                  to her,
 "You don't  want anything that  isn't real;  you 
                   want  real
 stones."  She says  that she really  isn't 
                   interested  in the
 necklace anyway,  but instead wants to buy a pin made of
 soft green rubber shaped like a frog. She holds up the pin
 and jiggles it,  making it appear as  if it were wiggling 
                  and
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