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of evaluation
has to be curbed. Encourage the person to
shift their sensitivity from the drawing style to the story
they make up.
I make these comments only
as a precaution, in case
such problems arise, for they sometimes do. Yet for the
most part, people have a natural tendency to
make up a
story about the drawing—it is child's play.
After the stories have been told, the
dreamers identify
themselves in turn, tell
their dreams, and give their
reactions to the stories. Sometimes the dreamer
needs
some help, too. It is natural
to compare the original
dream with the story
told about the drawing. The
dreamer may say, "Well, you
were right about this
part, but wrong about that part." That's
fine, but misses
the point of the game. The dreamer can be helped
along
with questions such as (1) What
did you learn about
your dream from hearing the person's story? (2) Did the
story remind you or help
you become aware of any
feelings you had about your dream? (3)
Did the story
remind you of anything about yourself?
In the discussion period
there are often discovered
provocative connections between the
story, the dream,
the story teller and the dreamer.
It may be that the
story's theme strikes a deep chord within
the dreamer,
perhaps revealing the essence
of the meaning of the
dream. More often it is just one aspect of the story
that
speaks to the dreamer, creating a new
awareness about
the meaning of some part of the dream. If the story teller
is asked to try to reconstruct how the drawing stimulated
the story that was told, it may be learned
that it was the
color, the shading, the placement,
etc., that seemed
significant. The dreamer then may come to recognize the
way they expressed themselves with their hands and
get
in touch with new levels of meaning.
Sometimes the
story proves to be a remarkably accurate"reading"
of the
dreamer in some way, leaving the
group marveling at
the mystery of "where the story came from." There
is no
way of predicting in advance the kind
of insights that
will emerge from the discussion. So it is
best to allow
the discussion period
to be freewheeling, led
by
curiosity and a respect for the truth contained in feelings.
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