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Instructions are then given
about making up a story
about the drawing. It needs to
be made clear that the
object of the game is not to be able to
guess what the
dream was about. Instead, the purpose
is to enter the
drawing with imagination and emerge
with a story that
fits the drawing. Sometimes we say, "You
can be most
helpful to the dreamer
if you simply let
your
imagination have free rein and
if you can suspend
critical judgment about your story-making skills."
The
instructions are that the story
answer the following
questions: (1) What is going on here? (2)
What are the
people, animals or things feeling and thinking? (3) What
led up to the present situation? (4) How does it all work
out?
We give five minutes for people
to meditate on the
drawings. Then we begin to tell the stories. Each person
in turn tells a story and, while other people may wish
to
comment or obtain further details
of the story, the
identity of the dreamer (the person who did the drawing)
is not revealed. In this part of the game
the focus is on
the stories.
Sometimes the person telling
the story needs some
help. Helping the story teller
requires that the other
people be sensitive to what is going on with the
person
as the story is told. Sometimes
the story teller lacks
confidence, making only brief comments that don't quite
form a story. The group can offer support,
coaching by
asking specific questions about the drawing until a story
emerges. It is helpful to give reassurance
that it is not
the story-telling skill that helps the dreamer,
but rather
the person's willingness simply to tell
what they are
reminded of by the drawing. Should
the story teller
remark, "I don't know what is
happening here; maybe
these people are doing this, maybe
they are doing
that..." a helpful reminder is that it is not
the purpose of
the game to be able to guess what the dream
was about,
but to simply pretend that they do know what is going
on
in the picture and to tell the story.
Sometimes a person will not
tell a story, but instead,
will make evaluative comments about the dreamer
who
made the drawing: "The heaviness of these strokes shows
that the dreamer is a very determined person." This
kind
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