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we
trust the dreamers and their dreams; where a
dream
is shared and other perspectives are offered,
but always
checked out with the dreamer to make sure
they make
sense for their life situation. I believe that working
on a
dream must be a process
where life is respected,
supported and nourished,
rather than being pulled
apart, analyzed and shrunk down to
fit into some neat
theory. Therefore, I'd like to suggest
a simple process
for sharing and directly experiencing our dreams from
a
variety of perspectives. When we successfully work on a
dream, we can enter it and view our lives
from this new
vantage point.
Dreamwork
in a Group
Most
of the dreamwork I have done
has been with
groups of four to fifteen
people who got together
specifically to share and work
on dreams. The groups
were formed by friends and friends of friends, as well as
people who responded to notices posted around town or
listed in a learning exchange. We met on a weekly basis,
moving between various group
members' homes. A
session usually lasted three to five
hours. ( Of course,
these forms can be varied to
fit your situation or
purposes.)
For the first group sessions
we spend a lot of time
discussing dreams in general and the experiences people
have had with dreams in the past. This is a good time
for
the group to explore any questions
we have and begin
looking at what we would like to do together
as a group.
There may be special areas that group members
would
like to explore or material the group would like to
read
together. We found it very helpful to start all sessions by
letting everyone say a few words about how they've been
getting along with dreams lately and whether
they have
a specific dream they would like to work on.
When someone feels ready to share a
specific dream,
we begin the work. We prefer
working with an entire
dream, rather than just a portion of one. I believe
that an
image can only be understood in
the context of the
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