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This dream and
others of a similar nature
have
revealed to me what I consider
to be a very important
principle of lucid dreaming especially as it relates to the
confrontation of fear or problems.
The principle is:
Once lucidity arises I am able to
release myself from
the compulsion to confront a problem on its
own level.
Instead, I am free to pray or meditate
in the midst of a
situation that would normally draw me into an emotional
entanglement. In the above dream, however, I
chose to
return to confront my attackers in order to assert myself
in relation to them. This seems to be valuable
and even
necessary at times, leaving me
with an exhilarating
sense of having overcome a fearful situation.
Overall,
however, I have found that lucidity
is a fragile faculty
especially during the beginning
stages, and can be
quickly submerged by an over-confident exercising of it
in relation to dream images,
as is suggested by the
"premature" awakening from the
above dream. I feel
that for myself there is a need to regard
lucidity as an
opportunity to cooperate with
or forgive the dream
elements rather than an opportunity to exercise
control
over them.
Since I possess
a limited understanding
of the
workings of the unconscious, I prefer to approach it with
an attitude of healthy respect. It is
possible that during
the few dreams in which I have attempted to
change the
dream content, I was in effect saying,
"I know what is
best for me." And
this I know is rarely
the case!
Whenever I consider changing
the dream content
according to my momentary fear or desire I am probably
violating the functioning of a deeper
level of myself
from which the dream content originates. So instead
of
approaching lucid dreaming in this manner
I have tried
to alter and improve my responses to the dream content.
In this way I have hoped
to engender a creative and
growing relationship to the dream.
In my opinion it is
unfortunate that at this time
when lucid dreaming is
being introduced into popular literature, there is such
an
emphasis upon the manipulative capacity of the dreamer.
Such an approach to this potentially powerful experience
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