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psychology. I would like to share with you what I learned
from this study and how I went about it.
I worked with most
of my dreamers in small groups,
but with some I worked individually or through the
mail.
I would introduce dream incubation something like this:
"Dream incubation
is eliciting dreams, at will, on a
given night, that will help you
to define and resolve
problems that confront you in daily life. For example,
if
you have a difficult decision to make, you can call forth
a dream that will show you why you are having
trouble,
by portraying the underlying conflict in
terms you can
understand. Or perhaps you are
having a hard time
getting along with a relative or friend. You can
incubate
a dream that will make it clear
to you why, from the
point of view of your
unconscious, you have such
trouble. The dream will thus offer
you a way out of an
interpersonal deadlock. You can elicit dreams
that will
go a long way towards unscrambling
past dreams that
have puzzled you. With practice,
you can learn
to
incubate dreams on almost anything what to do next in
your career, what is troubling
you in meditation, why
you find yourself discontented with
your family, why
it's so hard for you to lose weight
or give up habits of
thought and behavior that you
know are defeating you.
You can ask rather far-reaching
questions like, 'Why
did I choose to be born into my family?' Or,
'Why did I
psychically arrange to be in that
auto accident?' Or,
'What happens at death?' The
incubated dreams will
come the same night you ask them to help you out with a
problem. They will be messages from various
levels of
your inner self. The dreams may redefine your problem
for you, translating the
problem from the way you
consciously see it into the way
your inner self sees it.
The discrepancy can be very enlightening.
The dreams
may present alternatives to your
dilemma that you've
not considered. They might also
present a possible
resolution for you to try out
during subsequent days.
They might introduce you to whole new areas of psychic
awareness and understanding.
Finally, sometimes
incubated dreams seem to have
a resolving, soothing,
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