HOSTESS FOR ADREAM CRUISELinden Nelson, Ph.D.California Polytechnic State UniversitySan Luis Obispo, CaliforniaI teach a course on personal development and, as part of their work for this course, a few students meet together weekly to discuss their dreams. A college counselor, Nancy, has volunteered each quarter for the past few years to serve as leader for the dream groups. My contact with Nancy is usually limited to about two telephone conversations each quarter when we schedule a time for the dream group to meet. I had not spoken with Nancy since September when, on November 10,1976, I was surprised to receive from her by mail a copy of the following dream, from the night of October 28. Since I was the "captain" in her dream, she thought it would be of interest to me. I am with my family waiting to go up the gangplank of a large pleasure cruise ship. There are many people, laughing and talking. In fact, the whole atmosphere is of a huge party in which everyone is very happy. Looking around, I see my mom and dad further back in the line. My children ask me where we are going. I reply, "For a cruise; it doesn't matter where; it's for fun!" I am waiting with them, but don't go on board with them because I am an employee of the steamship company, and will enter through another gangway and door. I leave my family, making my way through the happy crowd, feeling wonderful. It's hard to describe the marvelous feelings I'm experiencing. Along the way to my gangway, I see several colleagues from the college counseling center who ask me where we are going. Again, I say that it doesn't matter, because this is a cruise on the ocean and we are going to have a lot of fun! It doesn't matter one whit to me that I don't know where we are going. Once on board, I go to our cabin and my family is already there, eating fruit and having drinks. I remark about the thoughtfulness of the management in providing such nice 112
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